I’m not much of an expert on the subject called “love.”

There is something I want to understand. I’m not much of an expert on the subject called “love.”

People get together and fall in love. There is no real-time frame for it, right? How do you know when you’re really in love with someone? In my mind, if I was in love with you, it would translate to spending my entire life on earth with you. This would be the person I would want to marry.

“I love you” seems to be used so loosely. Although it is easy to love someone. I loved a couple of different people. I’ll be honest, I’ve probably said it to a few that I didn’t really even love. Or at least I didn’t know what the hell love was myself.

Even the term “wifey” and “husband” (is there another name for husbands? lol) is used so loosely. #AdultProblems My communication skills don’t go over very well with the younger kids nowadays 😆

People who fall in and out of love often…how?

Lets say you’re together for a total of 3 years. First year is the honeymoon stage correct? How would you know if it’s really true love? It’s a temporary moment in time where the conversation is flowing and sex is good. You’re having a good time getting to know each other while roaming the streets and crossing over oceans. You’re so in love while in this “honeymoon” stage. But year two comes and the fireworks start to die. What happened? You were in love with this person. You made them your entire life. How does that fade in year two? Is it really that easy or were you never really in love? I really would like to know. Going into year three. No need to drag this out anymore. I’ll always care for you. Have a nice life ✌️


I can understand just loving someone. There’s plenty of reasons to love a person. We each hold many unique qualities. We’re all lovable to someone 😉 I can justify why I said I love you to my ex’s. We won’t count my younger days. We’re all naive, young, dumb and broke at some point in our life 🙉

It’s the in love part that I lack the experience and it makes me wonder. How do people fall in love so easily? I’ve never experienced the desire to marry anyone. I’ve never called anyone “wifey” besides Jennifer Lopez 🤣🤣 That woman I would marry in a heartbeat!!!

Maybe it’s a little sad that I’ve never experienced that A Walk To Remember kind of love? My favorite movie in the entire galaxy btw 🤗 Even so, I don’t lose hope. I know true love will happen when we’re BOTH ready for it.

So, do you think people really know the difference between loving someone vs being in love with someone? Or are they one in the same?

If anyone has any insight, please share. We, humans, are so complex. Just read my The Soul, The Brain, The heart. post. I still have a lot to learn in this area.

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About me…let’s see….I would say I am a TRUE Virgo. If you knew me, then you would so agree. There are quite a few things I care deeply about. Off the top of my head, I would say with much passion, my family, friends, the environment and world peace. Oh and animals. Can't forget them. I think I love animals more than most humans, lol. I believe it’s important to surround yourself with good people. Be picky with who you let in your circle. The environment, the earth does not belong to us. We are merely just visiting for a period of time. So lets no abuse it. World peace, that’s a hard one. It’s not a perfect world, but wouldn't it be wonderful if every child, women and man were safe? We can’t change the world and every single soul living on earth. But one person can make a great difference in the surroundings in which they live. Wouldn't you agree? Let’s not forget what fuels my soul, music. It speaks for me when I can’t. It expresses my feelings when I am unaware of what they are. It has a way of lifting my spirits when I am down. It has this magical power that is able to touch my heart with just lyrics alone. I wouldn't know what I would do without it. Poetry, I love poetry. In all forms...written or spoken. I think that's it :) Wait, then there is God, the source of everything. Astrology, quantum physics, Abraham Hicks, Agape...I should just end this now, LOL.

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