Tag: JLo

Not All Advice Is Good Advice

Going through my feed:

Advice on friendships – what is considered a great friend?

Family – family is everything – does that mean we accept bullshit and always forgive only to have them do the same thing to you again?

Love – he/she is truly a kind person. They had a rough upbringing. I need to be more understanding. Help them because that’s what good people do. Even if it means my happiness comes second?

Follow your passion – it will pay off. Does that mean one day you’ll make enough money to support yourself and quit working for someone else?

Let us talk about this. I also threw in the Grammys. JLo, Cardi B and trolls.

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Dreaming my wildest dreams and then kinda watching them come true.

“I kinda had to forge my own path, make my own rules.”

I love, love this speech. Especially her being told she’s doing too much, that she should do only one thing. Me in a nutshell. She has passion for many things. As so do I 😬 Hence why my blog isn’t focused on just one topic. I have lots love for multiple things. I find it difficult to just choose one.

It’s true. When you have too many things going on you can never get really great at one thing. But look at her 🤷I have a pretty good idea how she did it. I think she tackled one thing at a time. Once she got good at one thing, she added the next.

Dancer – Fly girls…boom!

Acting – Selena…boom!

Singing – On the 6…boom!

So many booms LOL

She kept adding. American Idol, book, fashion, perfume, a Vegas show…OMG, also a mom.

I’ve watched her transform from the bottom to higher heights to even higher ones since I was 14. The woman is amazing and dedicated AF. There is no half-assing. It’s impossible to be where she’s at if she did.

Now…how can I get there? I’m not trying to reach her statue. I’d just like to be about 40% of her 😆 Brave enough to pursue my passions with conviction. There is too much contemplation with me 🤦

When we look around at our life and we’re not as happy as we want to be, that is a choice. We choose everything that we are allowing to go on in our life.

The fact that I’m not exactly where I want to be is because I haven’t worked on my endeavors hard enough. That’s me being honest with myself. It’s true, we have to put in effort (blood, sweat, tears) when it comes to the things we want. Too bad I can’t be a famous writer or speaker overnight 😒 lame LOL

Sweet escape 😊

This weekend will be a sweet escape. From the entire freaken world. We’ll, I won’t be alone technically 😏 but I will have ZERO reception. No phones, no social media, no bad news overflowing my ether. It’s going to be just me and the universe. We will be ONE…clear of negative energy.

I’ve been trying to be as normal as possible. Some days are good, today wasn’t one of them. I woke up with a heavy heart. I’ve noticed how short tempered I’ve been. Like I’m angry a lot. And I don’t want that. I don’t wanna be angry or cynical. That’s not me. I know that I need to forgive myself. I’m just not ready to. Maybe after I spread her ashes I’ll have some peace again 😢 I pray for it.

There’s something else bugging me. I just wanna share very quickly something I read earlier. It made me so freaken mad 😬 And this isn’t just because I love Jennifer Lopez. What makes me mad is how people are so bitter and narrow-minded. Someone tries to spread love and positivity and STILL some dumb fuck finds a way to belittle it. I’m just so frustrated with people. Any form of good is good. We should praise it. Be thankful for it. We NEED more love. The proceeds go 100% to the victims. It’s not to promote herself… it’s coming from her heart. She’s one of the most humble celebrities out there. But bitter bitches are always gonna hate aren’t  they? A comment that was posted read: 

Really???????? So now she’s too successful to have an opinion???? She’s too successful to put out a single to help people devastated by the attack in Orlando??? Oh, BTW… all this happened because her twitter hastag was #alllivesmatters I guess people don’t agree.

This is why I should not read comments. It’s just mind blowing! And 124 likes… holy shit. I guess I shouldn’t be lashing out this way. There’s a “nicer” way to express myself. Sorry, still angry.

I just read about Nice, France. 💔💔💔 And tomorrow is a day of “rage? ” Thank the universe I’m disconnecting this weekend. I need to release all this negative energy and find my light again. Seriously.

Anyways… Have a safe and happy weekend. Be careful out there. The Leo King says things are going to calm down soon. Mars… get the hell out of Scorpio. 🙏🙏🙏

My weekend essentials 😂 my book to help me heal. Shades for the rays. I don’t like bugs, lol. Sketch book if I feel like writing or drawing. And of course… My earphones! One thing I can’t be without is my music! I have sanitizer and wipes too 😄 Xoxo 😘 Always sending love and light your way.