Tag: How To Be Successful

I know you really think I can’t do it

The people closest to you are normally the ones that question your ability to conquer your dreams the most. Sad but true. They love you and mean well but they just aren’t sure of you. It could be their own insecurities. Or maybe they’ve seen your ways (Netflix binge 3 out of 4 weeks).

Before you get all huffy and puffy, let’s think this through. What do you fill your day doing? The entire 24 hours.

My answer: I do a lot of things. Too many to list off the top of my head.

That isn’t a good enough answer. I know this and so do you. How do we remedy this? 🤔

Ah ha! Journal it! It may seem very tedious. You might even think it’s a waste of time. But if you really what to know if it’s – 1) their own insecurities or 2) you Netflix and binge way too much … then you should do it.

Now, be honest. Don’t all the sudden be more productive because you’re holding yourself accountable. Keep living how you have been. No one is going to read it and judge you. In the end, it’s just to help you.

You will either say…I know you really think I can’t do it but that’s your own insecurity speaking OR… I fuck around way too much.

I think journaling daily for 30 days is sufficient to really get a good idea of how you spend your time. I’m gonna do this too 😬

Don’t be lazy. You have nothing to lose and so much to gain 🤓

End of project “Self Awareness” 10/6/2018


Dreaming my wildest dreams and then kinda watching them come true.

“I kinda had to forge my own path, make my own rules.”

I love, love this speech. Especially her being told she’s doing too much, that she should do only one thing. Me in a nutshell. She has passion for many things. As so do I 😬 Hence why my blog isn’t focused on just one topic. I have lots love for multiple things. I find it difficult to just choose one.

It’s true. When you have too many things going on you can never get really great at one thing. But look at her 🤷I have a pretty good idea how she did it. I think she tackled one thing at a time. Once she got good at one thing, she added the next.

Dancer – Fly girls…boom!

Acting – Selena…boom!

Singing – On the 6…boom!

So many booms LOL

She kept adding. American Idol, book, fashion, perfume, a Vegas show…OMG, also a mom.

I’ve watched her transform from the bottom to higher heights to even higher ones since I was 14. The woman is amazing and dedicated AF. There is no half-assing. It’s impossible to be where she’s at if she did.

Now…how can I get there? I’m not trying to reach her statue. I’d just like to be about 40% of her 😆 Brave enough to pursue my passions with conviction. There is too much contemplation with me 🤦

When we look around at our life and we’re not as happy as we want to be, that is a choice. We choose everything that we are allowing to go on in our life.

The fact that I’m not exactly where I want to be is because I haven’t worked on my endeavors hard enough. That’s me being honest with myself. It’s true, we have to put in effort (blood, sweat, tears) when it comes to the things we want. Too bad I can’t be a famous writer or speaker overnight 😒 lame LOL